Women lust after guys for many different reasons, and there’s no way that any guy can make every woman lust after him. However, there are some things that you can do in order to make yourself attractive to as many women as possible. Many of these suggestions are simple to implement and yet once you perfect them, you’ll have many women lusting over you!
The first selection of suggestions is with regard to your appearance. Although most physical attributes are subjective, and different body shapes appeal to different women, there are some things that are universal. For example, women like their men to look clean and fresh. Turn up on a date with a five o’clock shadow, covered in ink and wearing a crumpled shirt and jeans, and you’re not likely to get a good response from your date. Turn up recently shaved, with the same clothes but with them freshly laundered and your date is going to have a better first impression of you.
Other physical things are a white dazzling smile and a decent haircut (although hair length and style again is a subjective area!). If you can get your eyes to twinkle–or even get that George Clooney eye-crinkle thing going on, you’re off to a great start!
Next comes the personality traits that most women love (or hate). A sense of humor is often at the top, or near the top of a list of ‘must have’ attributes that women look for in a guy. This isn’t necessarily a “Simpson’s” or “South Park” sense of humor, but rather showing yourself to be a person that can laugh and who doesn’t take himself or life too seriously.
Although she probably won’t appreciate you making a public spectacle of yourself (and her!) with outrageous behavior, if you can make a woman laugh, you hold her in the palm of your hand. Other personality traits are listening to what she has to say, not monopolizing the conversation, not being too macho in your approach to who picks up the check, not appearing to be needy or high maintenance, and having an air of self-confidence that doesn’t border on arrogance. If you can manage to hold a conversation that doesn’t revolve around sports, then you’re going to score even higher on her lust scale!
Although the stereotypical woman lusts after a 6-pack abdomen, and shoulders the size of Texas, this isn’t what the average woman is looking for. Although women do go for this kind of thing in certain situations, as with guys, this is usually a social thing rather than a personal choice in a partner.
To be a guy that women lust over, you don’t necessarily have to attend charm school and spend 3 hours in the gym everyday– just be attentive, quietly confident, relaxed, and sincere, but above all, be yourself. Nothing is more attractive than a man who is comfortable in his own skin!
Jane Saeman runs a site called along with info on dating and relationship on her blog at at http://www.Hot-Firefighters.com/blog2